Here it is Monday, Labor Day, already. I did meet my friends on Saturday night and we had a great dinner and drinks sitting outside on the patio at RD's. We watched all the people with their dogs prance by. It is really comical how so many dogs look like their owners and you can tell who is really into their dog or just there for show.
Sunday I didn't poke my nose out of the house except to get the paper. It was a muggy, hot day. The phone was quiet and not much was going on. I got some more housework done.
I thought Desi was headed back today, Monday, but he decided to stay up North and not return home until tomorrow . He is having a good time playing with his grand kids...he is a big kid himself. I did find out a few things on the Internet which explains a lot of the questions I had about Desi not inviting me to his end of the world. Nothing earth shattering but everything makes sense now. I don't want to go into it on this on my Blog, but I"m satisfied that my doubts and questions were answered. Time will sort things out. I just need to remember to keep everything casual. All is well and the three things I have to remember is , do not complain, compare, or question. It's amazing what you can find out when someone is chatty and when that doesn't work, Google is a great tool.
My older man contacted me and was still in San Diego and was getting things done. He said he would call me, as he said before, this coming week. I also heard from a man that I have no idea who he might be or where he came from. He sent me a picture and was very chatty, but my mind has drawn a blank as to where he lives or what he does. Now where in the world did he come from?
I think I'm making a lot of these men casualties of the dating wars. I love being alone on my own terms and want to see only who I want to see, when I want to see them. So far it is working out. I have my choice and can date at will, but at this point I'm not very willing. My life is busy and doesn't need the complications brought on by to many men as it was in the beginning of this online dating thing.
The Homeless Vets are having a Stand Down and I received an email this morning asking me to volunteer to serve breakfast one day. I will do that. Tomorrow night is packing boxes for the Vets in Afghanistan again. Very worthwhile.
Tomorrow is also a doctor's appointment for a second opinion on my knee that is still killing me and another meeting that I will probably miss due to the packing job as mentioned above.
I'm sure life will get exciting again, this is just a down time which is fine with me.
Best to all.
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