Finally, got the glitches taken out of my computer. Thank heaven for Bruno at Staples my best tech man ever. He really is a genius when it comes to fixing all the weird things that happen. The only thing he couldn't recover was my cougar faces surrounding the Blog....oh well!
So since I've posted my last bit of information let me see if I can recall what I've been up to. I really think the "Adventures in Online Senior Dating" has become irrelevant. I actually haven't been on line for a while. I have my hands full with Veteran man, Dez, and a few other people, not to mention my everyday life that seems to be flying by.
Dez was sick for a long time and still is coughing but not as much. I did see him once after he cancelled our date and he really tried to keep his head up. I think he knew I was not very happy with all the cancellations that happened although I did understand. He drove his usual two and a half hours to see me. I guess he really does want to see me or he wouldn't be making the trek.
He promised that he would come down for a date night on a Thursday the following week, which was last Thursday. Needless to say, he tried to put to much on his plate. He had a court date for jury duty early the next morning, and had to leave for the North to final the job that has been on going forever. He called me and asked what I was doing the 2, 3 and 4 of March, the following weekend.
Dez wanted to take me to Palm Desert. Now, this trip was one we planned a year ago and didn't make, do you see a theme here? I told him okay but I'd believe it when I saw the whites of his eyes. He swore that he was definitely going to do this. We'll see. I don't plan on anything with him. If it happens it happens. He has business out there so if that holds I'm sure we will go. God forbid he should just take me to be with me. He has to squeeze everything he can into his schedule including his love life. He already knows where he wants to take me to dance. Progress????
Me of all people know that business is business and with commercial construction things happen that are totally unforeseen. He is keeping his head above water and in this economy that is a hard thing to do. He will be leaving for Florida and Alabama, Arizona and god knows where else in the near future. I'm trying to be understanding and patient, which is not my strong suit.
I'm glad that I don't want a permanent 24/7 man.....Dez would make me crazy, but he is just so damn much fun and we have a good time together when we do go out, that I'm not willing to give him up or send him on his way. I put up with more from him then I have from any other man I've ever known and believe me that has been many. Dez makes me laugh and that is something I've never had with a man.
As for Veteran man, he is so attentive and communicative I get the feeling that he is totally enamored. He is very flattering. He calls me spectacular, incredible, beautiful, smart, sexy etc. It is nice to have someone that pays a lot of attention to you even if most of the things he says are just blowing smoke my way. He's taken me out for drinks, lunch and dinner. This week he is in the Grand Cayman's with his daughter. When he arrived in Florida he texted me and said he was on his way to the Caymans and had arrived safely in Fort Lauderdale. Then today I received a picture on my cell of the most beautiful white sugar sand beach and palm trees, although he said he wouldn't be texting due to the expense from that distance. I don't know if a picture counts. He really needed to get away and I hope he has a great time.
So, I will let everyone know if I actually get to Palm Desert with my favorite man......
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