Nothing is ever easy. I had a surprise bill come in that threw be for a loop. I was already trying to figure out what I was going to do with all the bills piling up and to add insult to injury a huge one came in that I wasn't prepared for. I really don't know what I'm going to do.....muddle through somehow. Thank God they don't have debtors prison or I'd be there for sure. California is a hard place to be retired.
To get off that soap box, I've been called by so many people offering to help me out. My good friend took me out today for errands and some lab work. We had a nice lunch and caught up what we had been doing the last several months. I'm so blessed to have so many good friends in my life.
I also had a call from a man that I have known for a while. Just a friend, but very giving and willing to help me anyway he can. So far I haven't needed him for anything and I would prefer to just keep it friendly, so probably will never ask him Better that way. He also doesn't know where I live and I want to keep it that way.
Veteran man has also been there offering to help me out but again I always feel that you end up paying one way or the other and it is better to figure things out yourself and do your own thing. I hate being obligated to anyone, especially a man. To big of a price to pay.
I've been pretty much been in the house since my knee surgery and will be for a while. I will say that I've been to dinner and lunch with various friends so I'm not totally housebound. Last night I had dinner with my ex neighbor where I use to live many years ago. We have been friends over thirty years.
Dez is gone and will be back on Sunday night. I'll see him on Monday. He seems to be a semi constant.
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I need to regroup and start a new year being frugal and trying to organize my life and house.
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