As reported, Veteran man did come to take me to dinner and to do my craft shopping. Now this man has told me that he is dating someone, but that it is very casual and he sees other people other then her. He knows about Dez, so it is all out in the open, or so I thought.
Dez kind of knows about Veteran man and I've told him I see him to go over the Marine Corp Ball details, which is pretty much true. If dinner is involved, it is. Now Dez very seldom calls me two days in a row. As Veteran man was sitting in my living room waiting to take me to dinner and the craft store the phone rang. Lo and behold it was Dez who was up North. He was still hacking and coughing but wanted to make plans to go to dinner and dancing this coming Thursday night. Raining men! I love being with Dez, he makes me laugh and we have a great time together, casual though it is, it is special.
Veteran man and I drove to the craft store and I purchased what I needed. The Lone Star is right in front of the store so as we drove over to go into the restaurant Veteran man said, "I can't believe it." I responded, "what." Seems there was a vehicle parked in the parking lot that belonged to good friend of his and he didn't want to be seen out with another women. Now does him seeing this other women just casually sound true?
I was more then miffed but we drove to another restaurant. He kept saying it really didn't matter if anyone saw us together. Yeah, right! We did have dinner and drove home. I hate people that aren't totally honest and at this age, I'm not sneaking around.
The next day I got a text from his that said, "good morning." I responded to it that I thought we should just stop going out and although we were thrown together with the Marine Corp Ball planning I didn't want to continue a relationship on any other level.
He said he understood but the I got another text from him asking if he could come over on Sunday. What about forget it, didn't he understand not to mention this man isn't my type at all. I've got a year to get through this Ball thing and then it is off you go. I guess it doesn't matter if your in your teens or my age, man can be jerks.
I will say Veteran man is extremely helpful and very nice which was probably the reason I agreed to go out with him to dinners and lunches. He's brought me flowers, sent cards and obviously thinks he wants a relationship of some type. No thank you. I don't like liars or people the shroud the real intent.
Then there is my local man that is my age that I met almost two years ago He wants to go out tonight. He calls almost everynight to check to see how I'm doing with my knee, which by the way is coming along. I'm debating about going tonight. Probably not.
I called Dez last night to see if he was feeling better. It went to voice mail. He sent me a text that said he was in a dinner meeting and what was up? I said I was just checking on him to see if he was doing okay.
This mornig Dez called, still coughing and said he had taken the superintendents on his project to dinner to review change orders etc. We firmed up our plans for Thursday night. At least I know what's what with Dez. I may not like some of it, but he has been the one constant the last umpteen months.
So, today, Saturday is a get myself together day. Nails, facial etc. I'm trying to save money so I'm doing the above myself.
Happy weekend!
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