Saturday, April 7, 2012

FLOOD GATES.....

Seems I've opened the flood gates of dating.  I've heard from several men in the last day, some that I've been in contact before a year or so ago and one that is a newbie.

All of these men wanted to go out this weekend.  The new one from San Diego wanted to come up yesterday to meet me in person.  Since I wasn't feeling great I declined and told him perhaps tomorrow would be better. He said, " if you'd like we can do Saturday or Sunday. 

Then a call from a man that is traveling to Afghanistan for business....something to do with food and a company that supplies it.  He wanted to go out Friday too and when I declined asked, " how about Saturday or Sunday." I sense a theme. So now I have to decide if I want to meet the new man who is also an international traveler for business or see the one that I know from before. Or do nothing.  I'm leaning towards nothing.

Vet man emailed me all day yesterday and didn't know if he was available for Saturday.  Since I didn't have him in my radar book I didn't care what he was doing. Although he checked on me last night to see how I was feeling. He is "plan B" as I am for him.

A man that was just chatty last year contacted me.  He lives about one hundred miles away and wanted to touch base.  He has always been very respectful and just benign which I think is a plus.  I've no interest romantically, but he is nice to email.

Dez actually sent me an Easter card.  He seems to be trying to be a good boy, but he is who he is and I'm still not buying his good boy routine.  He is spending the weekend with his step grand kids up North.

Oh dear, as I'm typing this my cell rang and it was Vet man.  He was checking to see how I was doing today and if I needed anything.  He offered to bring dinner for me tonight.  I still am not up to par and basically don't care if I see anybody, including him. 

It seems when it rains it pours.  I really didn't want to start this dating dance again.  I'm not sure if it is better to stay home and be bored or to go out and be bored.  All of it seems to be a giant waste of time.

Have a good Saturday.

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