Thursday, May 17, 2012

WHAT A WEEK....

This week has gotten away from me.  I had a meeting on Monday morning then came home to pay bills and play catch up. Tuesday I had a great day with a really good girlfriend of mine. We spent the day lunching and talking then having coffee together. We don't spend a lot of time together but when we do see each other we pick up like it was yesterday.  I'm glad to have her in my life.

Wednesday was workman day at the house.  The window washers and gutter cleaners came and boy did my windows and screens need cleaned inside and out.  I ordered a new garage door, my old wood one was rotting on the bottom from the sprinklers, and they showed up to install same.  I had planned on a retractable screen door man to install new retractable screens on the front and back doors, but he came over and told me that the company hadn't delivered them so he would be here on Saturday.  I tried to have everyone come on one day so I'm not tied up every day, that didn't work out.

The exterior paint man that Dez sent down is coming on Monday morning next week, then Mega Maids to do a Spring cleaning for me and finally the carpet cleaners.  That should hold me for a few months. I really need new flooring since my cat Camille thinks this carpet is her personal scratching post. Would love to put in hard wood but I need more money for that at this time.
Dez surprised me with an email that said he was back in town and would I be available.  I wasn't expecting him until next week but he met a man that he worked with ten years ago in Florida and the guy flew him back to California to meet with Disneyland people for a new restaurant that is going in.  They were flying back tonight on the private jet the man has access to.  I don't know if it is his or a corporate jet, but I can tell you it is the way to go.  I've been blessed enough to have good friends that have their own jet and I've flown with them to Hawaii, Florida and the East Coast.  It spoils you and it makes you really dislike commercial flying.

Dez will have his crew start the job next week and will be coming back from Florida on Wednesday.  He did come over late yesterday afternoon and we spent time together.  He was on East Coast time and needed to go back home as he was working at his office today in LA. but made plans to take me out next Thursday when he returns from the East.

 He always fluffs me up but insists that I have six other boyfriends besides him.  I asked why he thought that and he said it was because I was to pretty and smart to be alone.  Ha, little does he know, I spend a lot of time alone. Being pretty is not all it is cracked up to be.  I have a tendency to intimidate most men unless they have a strong sense of self worth. Men and their fragile egos!

 I think it is the pot calling the kettle black, as he is probably the one with six girlfriends, although with the way he works I don't know where he would find the time.  I think he was just blowing smoke.

I did go back online when Dez told me I should have a fill in.  I know I should but I hate starting the "dance" again.  I went through so many men and none of them were worth my time.  I've resigned myself that he is who he is and it is just fun. but being by oneself is better then going out with someone that bores you to death.  I'm trying to find a fill in for the occasional date.  Vet man wants to be "plan B," but he is tied up and I don't need another absent man.  Defeats the whole purpose.

I heard from a man this morning that is a Superior Court Judge. He didn't have his picture on the site and said it was because he didn't want to end up on some lawyers Facebook page.  He did give me a newspaper to check out that had articles and his picture posted.  He wants to meet me and I'm debating.  He isn't close by, about fifty miles or so inland, same distance as Dez.  The other problem is he is only fifty three, although I'd rather be with someone young then my age. Like I said before there is only one man I know that is my age that acts and thinks young, the rest are old fogies.

Today is a home day and I'm hoping to get a few things done although I haven't decided what.

Onwards and upwards.

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